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Ryan 01-13-2017 09:40 AM

Manners... A new rule...
 

I don't know where to start... So, lets start here. Read that thread in its entirety and note the seemingly endless list of people that feel as though they are being sniped or harassed by other users.

Ironically, some of the people complaining on that thread are the same people that are causing issues. Generally speaking, it's a huge mess... and I'm to blame. I just haven't done a good enough job getting rid of users that are destructive to the community. Today, I'm hoping to get back on the right track.

So, I'm introducing a new rule or protocol for dealing with users that just can't manage to post politely. It's a typical three strike rule. Essentially, a user that posts without manners will be banned for one week. A second offense and they will be banned for a month. A third offense and they will be banned permanently. Automatic bans will also be used for users that are obviously trying to cause problems for either the forum or a specific user.

We will give no special consideration for users with large post counts or specialized Ford Knowledge or anything else. It's a black and white deal.

Be nice or don't post.

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I need help however... If someone posts something derogatory towards you, don't respond (if you further instigate the problem, you could be banned as well) - instead, use the report button. Help us weed out the people that are being so disruptive. We really need the help fellas...

Oh... and fellas... opinions are fine. However, if you can't post your opinion without bagging on someone else's you need to keep your opinion to yourself. Drama simply isn't welcomed here guys.... under ANY circumstance.

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This is a fluid deal too. I'm working to clean the joint up and my strategies might fluctuate, but the general message will not.

Thanks fellas... and sorry for all the trouble,

Ryan
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tubman 01-13-2017 11:22 AM

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I must be dense; what is "that thread"?

40 Deluxe 01-13-2017 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by tubman (Post 1413159)
I must be dense; what is "that thread"?

Click on the underlined word "here".

Mart 01-13-2017 11:50 AM

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It was those Model A guys playing up again.. Lol.

Oh no, I was a little harsh in a reply earlier.

Hope I'm not on the hit list.

Mart.

Ryan 01-13-2017 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Mart (Post 1413172)
It was those Model A guys playing up again.. Lol.

Oh no, I was a little harsh in a reply earlier.

Hope I'm not on the hit list.

Mart.

I just checked... you literally have never had a post reported. I think you are going to be ok. :)

Most of the guilty have a long and sordid history of starting trouble. They will all be gone soon... I already got two this morning!

Tim Ayers 01-13-2017 12:47 PM

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Thanks, Boss.

As an elementary educator, sometimes you need to lay down the law so everyone can have fun and enjoy. I'll try my best to mind my P's & Q's.

Ryan 01-13-2017 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Tim Ayers (Post 1413203)
Thanks, Boss.

As an elementary educator, sometimes you need to lay down the law so everyone can have fun and enjoy. I'll try my best to mind my P's & Q's.

I feel like I can relate to you as an elementary educator more than I should be able too... We should compare notes! :)

tubman 01-13-2017 12:59 PM

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Ooops! Sorry; I'm not fully versed on some of the more sophisticated ins and outs of the internet. I'll just say that I was unaware that that sort of thing was going on so I didn't read the thread and will continue on in my blissful ignorance.

prpmmp 01-13-2017 12:59 PM

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Hey Ryan!! Great idea for the three strikes!! Can you implement that over at the HAMB? I got 1 strike(for being a dickhead:eek:) and was banned! Can I have at least one more strike?? :) Pete

Ryan 01-13-2017 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by prpmmp (Post 1413212)
Hey Ryan!! Great idea for the three strikes!! Can you implement that over at the HAMB? I got 1 strike(for being a dickhead:eek:) and was banned! Can I have at least one more strike?? :) Pete

Boy, did you pick the wrong day to ask...

prpmmp 01-13-2017 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Ryan (Post 1413217)
Boy, did you pick the wrong day to ask...

Yea!! Timing is everything!! Not my strong point:eek:! Pete

David J 01-13-2017 01:46 PM

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Just wondering if " not politically correct " and " blunt " equates to " not polite " ? If so I may need to pack da bagz .

Ryan 01-13-2017 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by David J (Post 1413235)
Just wondering if " not politically correct " and " blunt " equates to " not polite " ? If so I may need to pack da bagz .

We don't allow politics on the ford barn and never have...

And if you are looking for the forum to teach you manners, then yeah - back your bags.

If, however, you are here for the right reasons and are capable of treating people like you would want to be treated then you are welcomed on the forum.

It's not that hard to be polite. It just isn't.

Karl 01-13-2017 02:31 PM

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Thank you Ryan
It has only happened to me once but I sure remember it! I offered correct information on one posters incorrect definition of third degree burns. I ended up with a criticism of not only my medical degree but also the country I live in.

I really love my early Ford and visiting this site - keeping my visits enjoyable is appreciated - Karl

tiger.1000 01-13-2017 02:34 PM

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The meek will inherit the earth

petehoovie 01-13-2017 02:50 PM

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Letting people/abusers know they are on others 'ignore' lists might help as well....

Ryan 01-13-2017 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by petehoovie (Post 1413268)
Letting people/abusers know they are on others 'ignore' lists might help as well....

I prefer the ban button... It's easier.

Ol' Ron 01-14-2017 02:16 PM

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Boy, I hope I'm not on that list?? I know I sometime get frustrated with some of the questions, but I try to help those that are not familiar with some part of the engine or suspension. My biggest concern is safty. These old cars are not safe in today traffic. As long as you know this, fine. But traveling 70 mph down the interstate with the original brakes can be dangerous. AS old as I am, I've seen too many nice cars damaged by this. I my self lost a nice 36 Ford because I was going too fast with the stock brakes. I learned a lesson there. Just remember an "Accident" is an unplanned event.

Ryan 01-14-2017 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ol' Ron (Post 1413736)
Boy, I hope I'm not on that list?? I know I sometime get frustrated with some of the questions, but I try to help those that are not familiar with some part of the engine or suspension. My biggest concern is safty. These old cars are not safe in today traffic. As long as you know this, fine. But traveling 70 mph down the interstate with the original brakes can be dangerous. AS old as I am, I've seen too many nice cars damaged by this. I my self lost a nice 36 Ford because I was going too fast with the stock brakes. I learned a lesson there. Just remember an "Accident" is an unplanned event.

You are just fine Ron.

I think most of us know who the culprits are. It's generally the same names involved year after year with this stuff.

trevo 01-14-2017 03:52 PM

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I am pleased this stance has been taken the vindictive nit picking nasty types are now on notice cheers Ryan

Jeff/Illinois 01-14-2017 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Ryan (Post 1413205)
I feel like I can relate to you as an elementary educator more than I should be able too... We should compare notes! :)

Referring to Tim Ayer's comment in post #6, and Ryan's reaction, it appears that a number of folks here are on about the same level as grade school kids! 'Meet me out by the bike rack after school' that sort of thing.

Thank you sir for what you are doing.

mtflat 01-15-2017 12:37 AM

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It's been awhile since I've bothered you - thanks for keeping up a great forum Ryan!

Lawrie 01-15-2017 12:45 AM

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Ryan ,thanks ,I don't see any of the drama,BUT ,Man I would be lost if this place wasn't here.and would not have met all the great folks when we visit the USA.
Thank you for looking after it and us.
Lawrie

Bored&Stroked 01-15-2017 08:41 AM

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There are always a few in every crowd - and in most companies. I'm always amazed at our ability to put up with them and usually for far too long. We spend more time trying to justify why they're here, than they do on thinking about what they say and how they say it.

No matter how smart you are, experienced or fortunate (to own a bunch of cool shit), if your a negative and vindictive person - you do more harm in the end than good. Be positive, be cool - or shut the heck up.

I say, flush em . . . and THANKS for doing so!

Brendan 01-15-2017 10:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Ol' Ron (Post 1413736)
Boy, I hope I'm not on that list?? I know I sometime get frustrated with some of the questions, but I try to help those that are not familiar with some part of the engine or suspension. My biggest concern is safty. These old cars are not safe in today traffic. As long as you know this, fine. But traveling 70 mph down the interstate with the original brakes can be dangerous. AS old as I am, I've seen too many nice cars damaged by this. I my self lost a nice 36 Ford because I was going too fast with the stock brakes. I learned a lesson there. Just remember an "Accident" is an unplanned event.

Ron, your a good guy! i am a Journeymen Electrician and i tell my Apprentices there job is to ask questions and ask why! sometimes i get short with them . but then i relies that they are learning and don't know what or how. we can and do learn from this site! thanks

Fred A 01-17-2017 11:20 AM

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There is some room for misunderstanding. Ryan PM'd me in reprimand for referring to a celebrity poster, from Waco Texas as Waco guy, not wacko. Correct spelling and grammar not considered. The reference I thought was a great tongue in cheek responding to being called every kind of SOB. A bit of a disappointment. Fred A

Ryan 01-17-2017 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Fred A (Post 1415266)
There is some room for misunderstanding. Ryan PM'd me in reprimand for referring to a celebrity poster, from Waco Texas as Waco guy, not wacko. Correct spelling and grammar not considered. The reference I thought was a great tongue in cheek responding to being called every kind of SOB. A bit of a disappointment. Fred A

I don't remember that at all... So I guess it was recent.

In any case, you know what makes online arguments such a big problem in general? People feel the need to "retaliate" to trolls that call them names. Ultimately, this is what the original poster wants... as it ends up in causing drama. To avoid this, if someone attacks you - don't respond. Instead, just press the "report" button. Problem solved.

tubman 01-18-2017 01:10 PM

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Ryan,

I'm glad you've clarified the expanded use of the "Report" button. Up to now, I thought it was just to alert the moderators about threads on "Eastern-European Diet Aids" and such that sometimes pop up in the middle of the night. I don't remember seeing this when I first joined, but I'm glad to see it now.

Tubman

flatford8 02-03-2017 08:21 AM

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I like than plan...... keeps things civil...... now if we could just get some damn "Ford Barn" t-shirts !!!!........ sorry boss...... I had to...... Mark

Russ/40 02-03-2017 12:46 PM

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I agree, it does not take any more effort to be polite, in a disagreement. It gets frustrating though to hear of the subject problem incidents, and not knowing what actually happened because the offending posts have been deleted. Perhaps adding to the banned procedure you explained, the punishment of being on an available banned list, would be even more incentive to keep it civil.

russcc 02-16-2017 09:08 AM

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What ever you have done in the past has worked, as I can think of at least one former guy who we never see any more, except at swaps.

qmdv 03-24-2017 11:15 AM

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I have been off this forum for a while. Now I am back on the project so I am back. This forum has been so helpful. Thanks Ryan

Tim

Old Redneck 09-06-2017 12:43 PM

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I have always enjoyed the forum. Never heard of any shooting or fist fights so far. We all would be lost without it. Me for sure. Is there going to be a t-shirt for Hershey this year. Would be nice. Maybe a cap would be better. I must be dreaming again:cool:

HOTRODPRIMER 09-13-2017 10:09 AM

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Thanks Ryan. HRP

Bubsyouruncle 09-13-2017 09:19 PM

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Once upon a time, when Truman was in the White House (and Ford was still building flatheads!), if you said something you had naught, the next guy took you up on it, right there. And it ended there.

Today, thanks to the anonymity and physical distance of the internet, we have to deal with wienies who wouldn't DARE make certain statements in front of the people they are denigrating.

Ryan - Thank you for being on top of it.

FrankWest 12-04-2017 02:36 PM

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Ryan,
Seems that people have become nicer on here over the last 6 months. Maybe your last post about manners did some good.
Thanks for your work holding this board together, It is one of the most useful things on the internet.

Ric Dean 02-15-2018 07:28 AM

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This is a great thread.
... My sing-song with friends & family especially my children is it cost nothing to be nice, and that has made all the difference.
Ric

Ryan 02-15-2018 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by FrankWest (Post 1560934)
Ryan,
Seems that people have become nicer on here over the last 6 months. Maybe your last post about manners did some good.
Thanks for your work holding this board together, It is one of the most useful things on the internet.

It took some time, but we were able to get rid of the folks that weren't mature enough to express an opinion without bagging on someone else's. It was really that simple... and it was only a few users.

ct1932ford 02-16-2018 10:11 AM

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Over on the HAMB I have a circle of friends that at times we bust each others balls. It is all done in a fun guy kind of thing and we all know that it is just are way of being dumb guys! (as my wife would say) I hope it doesn't get misconstrued. We will be more careful!

fortyfords 02-16-2018 05:27 PM

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Ryan, I love this forum and Thanks for all, I wish Chevy's had a good forum like this one. So far I have only read good things here.


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